Wednesday, December 20, 2006

Christina Rebecca 4 month pics!!!


We just received new pictures of Christina last night. She is getting sooooooo big. And that girl likes to eat!!!! She is 15lbs and 11oz!!!!! WOW!!!!!!!!!! =) The doctor said that she is right on target. Please say an extra prayer that our sweet angel will be home soon!!!!! We really miss her!!!!!

Monday, December 18, 2006

Christmas begins!!!

We went to my mom and dad's yesterday to have Christmas with my immediate family. My parents, us, Greg (older brother), Danny (younger brother), and my nephews Bradley and Dylan. You have never seen so many presents in your life!!! We are all so spoiled!!! We had such a wonderful day. We got there around 11am and ate snacks while we waited for "Uncle Greggy" to get there. He rolled in about 12:30.........it was a good thing because the kids were about ready to become unglued!!! The kids opened their mounds of presents, but much to our surprise, it was not quite as "NUTS" as it was last year. Ian first gift was a dinosaur (All of the boys received one from Greg), but Ian loved it so much that he had a hard time getting started with his other presents. Then he would open one present and play with the dinosaur again. It was really cute. At 3:00 my dad had set up the coolest thing for the boys. He has a friend that lives out of state that dresses up like Santa for his family or something, but he has the Santa thing down. The night before we emailed him personal information about the boys........including things they needed to work on. When he called we had him on speaker phone and he talked to each boy individually. Of course the kids acted like you would expect a 3, two 4, and a 5 year old would...........they hid behind us and wouldn't talk. Oh well, it was so cute!!!! My parents gave us such a nice Christmas. Good food, lots of laughs, lifetime memories.............and although it is not needed, lots of gifts..........but I'm not complaining! ;-)

On Saturday, Danny and I took all of the boys to have breakfast with Santa at the Renaud Center in O'Fallon. I have to share this with you. When we pulled in the parking lot Brennan excitedly said, "Mommy, are we at the North Pole?" "No, Honey, we are still in O'Fallon. Santa is coming here to see us." So then Brennan said, "Ok, well where are the reindeer?" At this point Danny and I were ducking our heads in the front seat so he couldn't see us cracking up laughing. Kids MAKE Christmas!!!!!! I LOVE IT!!!!

Monday, December 11, 2006

I so hope this is the week!!!

I very seriously doubt that it will happen, but Thursday is my birthday. Wouldn't that be such a cool birthday present to get out of PGN?? I know that would be the only present that I REALLY want. =)

We have been very busy trying to get ready for Christmas. I must admit, Ian and Brennan are going to be extra spoiled this year. They are so cute about Christmas this year, that everytime I am in a store I find something else that they would like!!! Someone stop me!!!!! The smiles on their faces Christmas morning will be so worth the credit card bills.

My car broke down on Hwy 270 last Thursday. Only one year old with 16,000 and major engine trouble. That was no fun being stuck on the highway, but that's another reason why I love On-Star!!!

That's about it from here. Please say a prayer (or two) that we get out of PGN soon!!!!!

Thursday, November 30, 2006

We are in PGN!!!

We are officially in PGN!!! We were submitted yesterday!!!! Again, PGN is the final court, so to say, that has to approve our adoption. This can take anywhere from a few weeks to a few months, but I'm thinking positive!!!! My good friend Jaime was just re-submitted to PGN (did I forget to mention that you can get kicked out of PGN for errors with your paper work.....even as far as signatures not being legible, blah, blah). So how cool would that be if we could go to Guatemala to get our sweet little girls at the same time!!!!! Please say lots of prayers that we receive a reviewer in PGN that is "for" adoptions and will not nit-pick us to death. We know there is no way that Christina will be home before Christmas, but January or February would be good!!! Thanks so much for all of the support!!!!!

Monday, November 27, 2006

PGN here we come, sick kiddos, pics of boys, etc!



We received our Pre-Approval from the Embassy on Friday. Marco will hopefully pick it up from the Embassy today and then take our file to PGN!!!! It is now time to start on the baby's room!!! Hopefully I'll be able to get started this weekend!!!!! =)

The boys have both been sick. Ian started with a temperature on Wednesday around 104. And then on Thanksgiving Brennan started with a temp as well. No other signs, just temperatures. We sent Jesse to his sister's house for Thanksgiving and we stayed home. I did get to leave the house for a bit on Friday when my dad watched the boys. Their temps continued between normal to 102. At that point they also had REALLY runny noses and bad coughs. So that is how the weekend continued. Every three hours alternate between ibuprofen and tylenol. Jesse ended up sick on Friday night, all day Saturday he had a temp of 102. Jesse is better, but the boys continue to be sick. So off we go to the doctor at 10:10. I think it is probably just viral, but b/c the temp has been here for over 4 days they want to see them.

I did take the boys to get their pictures taken on Tuesday. The pictures turned out cute, the experience was a nightmare!!! Never again will I go with them alone!! I have a good story or educational advice regarding that trip, but I'll save that for a post later today or tomorrow!!! (But aren't the boys cute!!!!!!)











Saturday, November 18, 2006

OUT OF FAMILY COURT!!!!!!!!!!

I received an email from Carol...........we are out of Family Court!!!! I'm sooooooo happy! Now once we receive our PreApproval from the Embassy we can enter PGN...........the final court!!!!!!!!!!! Granted we may be there for a few months it is still one step closer to bringing our sweet baby home!!!!!

Friday, November 17, 2006

Going NUTS today!!!!

I don't know why, but I am so anxious today!!! Carol left for Guatemala today so there were no updates from Marco (our attorney in Guatemala), because she'll find them out herself while she is there. But I was soooooooooooo hoping to hear that we are out of Family Court. And I also keep checking my email every few minutes to see if I've received our Pre Approval from the US Embassy (they will email it directly to me). It generally takes about 30 days from when they receive our DNA results. I think it's been about 30 days!!!! Please say a little prayer for us!!!

Have a good weekend!!!

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

3 month pictures and doctor's report




Here is what the doctor said. (Floridalba is Christina's given name. )

doctor's visit on 11/08/06. Hi! This morning I had the opportunity to assess little Floridalba, she is now, as you know, aged 3 months old and has been, the caregiver tells me, doing well in the time since her last visit one month ago, she is alert and active, shows interest in what goes on around her continues to enjoy being talked to and now shows a beautiful social smile as well as makes many different cooing noises of her own both in response and also to call attention to herself, now shows voluntary control of her arms and legs and will alternate opening and shutting her hands as well as kicking and pushing with her feet. When on her stomach she will now lift her face from the bed. The caregiver tells me that his little one takes well her formula and is also receiving her ordered vitamin supplement. Upon evaluation today I found her in good health with no obvious physical or neurological abnormalities, her weight is 13 lbs 8 oz, length of 55.5 cms and head circumference of 38.1 cms. Please find some pictures attached. Best Regards Francisco

Will it be this week???

I am really hoping that receive our Pre-Approval this week and possibly get out of Family Court. Carol is leaving for Guatemala on Friday. At least when Carol is in Guatemala I feel like she has a better opportunity to find out what truthfully is going on and where we are at in the process. I think it would be FANTASTIC if she sent us an update saying that we are in PGN!!! We have not started on Christina's room.........although I bought everything MONTHS ago. We decided to wait until we were in PGN. Even though we could sit there for months, it is still that much closer to the end!!!

We did send a package with Carol. We sent disposable cameras, toys, and a Christmas outfit for the baby. I also painted ornaments for the foster family. One is a Santa Claus holding a picture of Christina. It's pretty cute! I just hope they all make it to Guatemala in one piece!!! I also sent a photo album filled with pictures from our visit trip for the foster mother.

Anyway, keep us in your thoughts and prayers that things get moving for us this week!!!!

Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Happy 3 months, Sweetheart!


Dear Christina,

I am missing you like crazy today. You are three months old today and I'm sure you are getting so big. You will be going to the doctor any day now and I can not wait to see new pictures of you. I watched the video of you this morning, because I can not get you off my mind lately. We know that Ingrid and her family are taking such great care of you and showering you with love and affection. That is apparent from meeting them and from the emails that I have received from Ingrid. Even though I know this to be true, I still wish you were home with us forever. Your brothers keep showing your pictures to their friends. They are both really excited to meet you. They talk about you all the time!!! We went shopping today to buy some things to send with Carol for you. Carol will be seeing you in about 10 days or so and will take lots of pictures and video for us. We can not wait to see you!!! We love you so much, Christina, and can't wait to hold you in our arms again!! Hugs and kisses!!

Love,
Mommy

Monday, November 06, 2006

Steps in the adoption process

I wanted to post this so everyone is a bit more familar with the process in Guatemala.


Here is the The Process Outlined:
1. Get your referral of your child - start working on finalizing homestudy and dossier.

2. Prepare a Power of Attorney and forward it to agency with proper signatures and proper seals. Once attorney receives the POA, the process of your adoption can begin in Guatemala.

3. The I-171-H, I-600 and G-28 documents along with the documents of the Birth Mom and child are presented to the Embassy in Guatemala. The same day the documents are presented, attorney receives the Authorization for DNA testing. You will be contacted when the authorization is received in our office and you will be instructed to call the lab to pay for the test. About 2 months.

4. The US lab where test was processed sends the results directly to Guatemala to the US Embassy. About 30 days.

5. You will be notified via E-Mail of your child’s Visa Pre-Approval by the USCIS/Home Land Security office in Guatemala. At the same time your Guatemalan Attorney will be notified as well. If you have not received this notification after 4 weeks, please contact your Case Manager for instructions on how to proceed to expedite it. About 6 weeks.

We are still waiting to receive our Pre-Approval!!!!

6. While all of the above is taking place, your dossier is being translated into Spanish by PGN approved translators and sent to Foreign Affairs for authentication.

7. Once the dossier is authenticated , it is submitted to Family Court and a Social Worker is assigned to the case. Various interviews take place, with the Birth Mother, the Child and the Foster Mom.This can be in process while waiting for your child’s Pre Approval notification. About 2 months

8. The Social Worker issues a report on his/her findings. (We are still waiting for the report to be received by our attorney in Guatemala.)If the report is favorable the case can proceed to the PGN (Solicitor’s General Office OR “Procuraduría General de la Nación)Hopefully at this point your attorney has received and picked up your Pre-Approval and he/she is ready to submit your file for the first time to PGN. Once in PGN, your case will be assigned to an attorney who will review your case. You will get “kicked-out” of PGN at least once with “previos”, most likely more than one time. These “previos” are irregularities with your case that could be found in either paperwork submitted by your attorney in Guatemala or your dossier. The PGN gets quite picky at this point. You can be rejected from PGN for expired notary commissions, or due to insignificant things like smudges, cross-outs, white outs, illegibility of a document, and so on. This is quite “normal” in the process. When your reviewing attorney is finished reviewing, he gives your file to his supervisor (another attorney) who then signs the file. The case then moves to the Sub-Attorney General’s office for signature. The case follows this sequence each time that is rejected and resubmitted to PGN. If they can’t find anything else “wrong” with your case, the Sub-Attorney General signs the case for final approval and you are out of PGN. Please note that the Sub-Attorney General does not sign on a daily basis, sometimes not even on a weekly basis. About 3 months

9. Birth Mother is called into the Guatemala Attorney’s office to sign off on your case. At this point the child is YOURS, legally, irrevocably and officially.

10. The attorney then needs to file a new birth certificate with your last name at the Civil Registry in the local Municipality where child was born. This may take up to three weeks; depending on how far away from the city the child was born.

11. The attorney then procures a Guatemalan Passport for your child so that he/she can travel out of the country. About 3-4 days.

12. At this time, documents will need to be translated to English to be presented to the US Embassy in order to receive your Embassy Interview appointment slip, commonly referred to as the “Pink Slip” About 48 hours from submission. If submitted on Thursdays, it should come out on Tuesday of the next week. The US Embassy is closed for adoptions on Fridays.

13. The baby/child will need to be seen by an Embassy approved doctor who will do a final examination on the child making sure that all vaccinations are up to date and issuing a bill of good health for the baby to travel. The Doctor issues a report to this effect. You will need to have your Pink Slip at this point. About 1 day.

14. With your “Pink Slip” in hand, the Embassy will schedule your appointment to obtain the visa for your child to travel. Please note that this is done Monday through Thursday, starting at 7:00am. At this time you will pay the proper fee. (Cash, Visa, or MC). You need to retain the receipt to show the Counselor officer. Your child’s visa will be ready to be picked up in the afternoon or the next day between 3 and 4 pm. About 1- 2 weeks.18. You are now free to bring your child home!



So once we receive our Pre-Approval and our report is finished by the Social worker, we will exit Family Court and move into PGN. I hope things keep going smooth!!!

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Grandma and Grandpa with Christina


Still pics from the visit trip!! Here is Christina with my mom and dad. We were so happy that they were able to experience meeting our daughter for the first time. Haven't heard anything new. But Marco doesn't send updates to Carol until Fridays and that is only if there is anything to report. I guess it is possible that we may have pre approval already, but I'm afraid that is wishful thinking! I'll let you know as soon as we know something. ( I also may copy something from my friends website so you understand the process in Guatemala a bit more. Jaime, can I copy what you worked so hard on?? Please, Please???)

Monday, October 30, 2006

Guatemala article

This post was on an adoption message board that I take part in. I thought you might find it interesting. It gives you and idea of what Guatemala is like.

http://www.oregonlive.com/O/relationships/index.ssf?/base/living/1161896108222590.xml&coll=7&thispage=1

Click the link above!!

Cheri

Friday, October 27, 2006

Need an idea for a cool Christmas gift?

Well, my good friend Jaime, who is also adopting AGAIN from Guatemala, has come up with a really cool cookbook. Please check out her blog http://www.babysalas.blogspot.com/ for more information. I've already ordered and received a bunch!!! They are soooooooo cute and most importantly they have AWESOME recipes in them!!!! If you want to look at a book first or if you want an idea about the recipes in the book let me know!!! PLEASE, please check out the blog and pass the info on to your family and friends!!!

Weekend plans


No updates or anything with the adoption, which is pretty normal. We are getting ready for a fun/semi-busy weekend! Tonight the kids will be attending a Halloween party at their friends house, Maggie and Kohler. They are VERY excited!!! Ian is going to be a motorcyle rider and Brennan will dress as Bob the Builder. I will post pics of them next week in their costumes! Tomorrow we are going to go to New Haven and spend the day with Jesse's sister Sue....and hopefully his other sister Debbie will be able to join us as well. We are planning to go to the pumpkin patch with her. The boys have only been with school and we have yet to buy them pumpkins. It should be a lot of fun!! We haven't all been together since the funeral. And then on Sunday we are going to carve pumpkins!!!!!! I'm sure I'll post pictures of us doing that as well!!! I hope everyone has a fantastic weekend!!! (Oh yah, and here's another picture of Christina from our visit trip!!!)

Sunday, October 22, 2006

Ian and Brennan at the Pumpkin Patch




Thought I'd share a few pics of Ian and Brennan at the Pumpkin Patch!! These were taken on Thursday, October 12th. It was pretty cold outside!!

Thursday, October 19, 2006

Yah, Yah, Yah!!!

I found out today that we have a positive DNA match!!!! YEAH!!!!!!!!! Now we just wait for Pre-Approval from the US Embassy. Basically Pre-Approval (PA) means that the US guarantees they will approve this adoption. This is very important. Once we receive PA and the social worker writes up the report we can exit Family Court and move into PGN. PGN is the final court!!!! (BUT PGN has been taking almost 3 months to get through.........so we still have a way to go.) Carol also confirmed that the birthmother was interviewed by the social worker last Friday!!!!

Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

Our Visit Trip



We arrived LATE Friday night. Saturday morning we went to the Artisan's Market to shop. Our guide was Edwin and he was FANTASTIC!!! We came back to the hotel around noon and decided to eat lunch. I think I had a few bites, b/c I just wanted to walk in the lobby to see if by chance the fostermother was early bringing Christina to the hotel. She wasn't!! So we went back to the room to pace the floor waiting for our phone to ring! Finally at 1:57 we received the call..........they were in the lobby!!!!! We went down to meet the fostermother, translator, and of course Christina!!!! She was sleeping in her foster mother's arms. It took much restraint, but I waited until we were able to ask questions and for the foster mother to fill us in about Christina's schedule. THEN she handed me Christina!!! What an angel!!! She was so cute and cuddly!!! It's been a long time since I've held a 2 month old, and never when it has been our child. Since we were on a trip to visit we were not allowed to take the baby out of the hotel. We stayed at the Marriott, which caters to adoptive families. My mom and dad arrived late Saturday night and unfortunately my dad had the stomach flu, so he could not hold the baby until Monday. We all thoroughly enjoyed spending time with Christina. She is a very sweet baby!!! She loves to be talked to and coo's in return!!! We took about 200 pictures, but I won't bore you with all of them. I will post a few of my favorites!!! It was extremely tough to give Christina back to her fostermother, but I know how much Ingrid and her family love Christina. Ingrid even brought presents for the boys and Jesse and I. That was so sweet!!!! I'm sure I'll be posting more..........it's a good way to fill up the waiting time!!!

(Make sure to look at the Go Cards post for another picture!! )

The baby doll was given to Christina from my Grandma. It's her first baby doll and she LOVED it!!!!! And Jaime, Jason, and Melia gave Christina the Froggy!!

I'm having problems posting more pics...........so more to come!!!

Let's Go CARDS!!!!!!!!!


I promise I will post more pics later and tell you about our visit trip, but for now here is Christina showing her Cardinal spirit!!! (Thanks, Jaime, for the outfit!!!) GOOOOOOOOOO CARDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, October 11, 2006

I can barely..............

.........stand the wait!!!! In 48 hours we will be at the airport waiting to go visit our sweet baby girl!!!! Is it Friday yet??? "Mommy" guilt is starting to set in b/c we will be leaving Ian and Brennan, but I'm sure between their uncle Greggy and my cousin Trisha they will have a BLAST!!! We will post pictures when we return from Guatemala!!! Thank you all for your support!!!!! A special thanks to Greg and Trisha for watching the boys for us.......my mom and dad for giving us the tickets........and to everyone that has listened to me whine about how SLOW our case is going!!!! The support that we are receiving will NEVER be forgotten!!! Thanks again and CAN'T wait to share pics of our baby Christina!!!

Sunday, October 08, 2006

What this week holds!!!

I heard from Carol on Friday. The DNA test is supposed to be completed on Monday and the birthmother will have her interview with the social worker on Friday. Because travel is difficult for the birthmothers in Guatemala, our attorney is going to have her stay in Guatemala City for the week. =)

Carol also emailed me Christina's fostermother's email address. That is sooooooooo awesome!!! I sent her an email just minutes ago.........ok so I speak NO Spanish, so I had my letter translated online. Let's just hope that it translated ok and didn't portray something that I did not say!!! (Or that something that I did mean to say was translated incorrectly!!)

We are sooooooo excited to visit our baby!!!! We leave on Friday and the boys will be taken care of by my brother Greg and my cousin Trisha!!! We KNOW they will be in very good hands while we are gone. Yet, we are still beginning to have upset tummies about leaving them!!!!

Please pray that things go well with DNA and the social worker interview. Also, please pray that the experience is not any more difficult as necessary for the birth mother. We will forever be greatful for the decision that she has made to give Christina up for adoption and offer her a better life!!!

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

Garage sale, DNA, and weird dreams!!!

The garage sale was once again a huge success. We made over $1500.00. We raffled off the Guatemala quilt. The winner was actually a couple that we met that day who is also adopting from Guatemala, Richard and Marsha. They will actually be in Guatemala visiting their little girl at the same time we are. We thought that was really cool and ironic that they were the lucky winners.

I emailed Carol last night to see if DNA had been done yet. And even though my credit card was charged on Saturday, September 23rd, it still has not been taken. I'm not use to paying for a service that hasn't been completed, and although there is no rhyme or reason, I guess that is how it goes in Guatemala!!! She said that Marco wants to have the DNA test done hopefully at the same time the birthmother has her interview with the social worker handling our case. I'll let you know when we are updated.

So last night I went to bed thinking about the setbacks on our case thus far and how long it's taking. Granted I'm also probably still basing things on the timelines from losing our first referral, but whatever, we've been waiting AWHILE and nothing significant has been completed. I had this dream last night (and I'll make it quick and just analyze this), apparently there was a building in St. Louis that I had to drop off a document. I was told that where I need to go was out the back door and down the hill to PGN (PGN is the final "court" we have to go through in Guate. Once we receive approval from this often ridiculously slow and picky court the baby is legally ours). When I opened the door it looked like a college campus with and escalator going down in the middle of an extremely hilly courtyard type area. So I start going down the escalator and it abruptly ends. The ground has mini creeks all around me. I finally get to the right side where PGN is up above me. But to get to it, I must climb these muddy steps that are at least 3 feet apart. As you can imagine it was not easy. And then I woke up. What does this mean to me? In my mind it looks like the road getting to PGN is going to be HELL!!!!! Let's hope once we get there maybe lady luck is on our side!!!!!!

So that is my garage sale, DNA, and weird dream update. I hope everyone is having a good week. I'll update as soon as I hear more.

Monday, October 02, 2006

Almost 2 months old!!




We just received new pictures today. Carol was in Guatemala last week. Our little girl certainly is not missing a meal!!! =)

Can't wait to meet her in two Saturday's!!!!!

Sunday, September 24, 2006

DNA authorization

We received a call from Carol on Thursday letting us know that we have FINALLY received authorization for DNA. That is such a huge step!!!! Once this is done things should get moving. And this is the last time the birthmother will see Christina..........so, if she was going to change her mind it would happen then. We are not anticipating that in the least, but will feel more at ease once that is done.

Awsome garage sale!!!

We made a little over $1,000 at our garage sale this weekend and we have so much left and add'l items being brought to us that we are doing it again this weekend!!! And then whatever is left will be donated to charity. Thank you to everyone for their help!!!! Could not have been so successful without your support!!!!

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Updates

We are still planning to have the garage sale Friday night and Saturday. We are so thankful for all of the donations that we have received.

My mind is still not completely functioning from lack of sleep this past weekend/week. Not only did we have the funeral and so forth, but Brennan has had a tough week with his asthma. For the first night in 5 nights, Brennan slept in his OWN bed last night..........all night LONG!!!! YEAH!!!!!!!! He is finally starting to feel better.

Jesse is going to take the rest of the week off. They began going through things at Dorothy's yesterday, which was completely draining. I'm hoping that he is able to relax a bit today and tomorrow. Thank you all for your kind words, prayers, and support.

We may possibly have DNA approval tomorrow........but I'm not really holding my breath. We'll just see what happens.

Again, remember the garage sale this weekend. If you are in the area please stop on by!!!!

Take care!!
Cheri

Saturday, September 16, 2006

Jesse's mom

We are deeply sad to say that Jesse's mom, Dorothy Rebecca Louise Wright passed away around 5:00 am Friday morning. It did come as a complete shock. She was definitely making improvements and we thought she would be able to leave the nursing home within a month or so. Also, this weekend there was a family reunion planned. Dorothy's brother from CA and her sister and BIL from South Bend, IN were coming in town for that. Unfortunately now they are coming for a different reason.

Dorothy will be greatly missed. If you ever met Dorothy you would truly understand what a sweet and compassionate woman she was. She was a wonderful mother, grandmother, sister, and friend.

We will miss you, Dorothy! We love you forever!!!!

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

New Pictures!!!! Yeah!!!!!!!




We just received new pictures from Carol!!! (Thanks, Jaime, for letting me know to call Carol!!!) She has gained 2 1/2 pounds in one month. I think it all went to her cheeks!!! Can't wait to kiss those cheeks in one month!!!

Thursday, September 07, 2006

Visit trip planned! YEAH!!!!!!!!!!

We booked our flight and hotel yesterday. We will be leaving Friday, October 13th (thankfully 13 has been a lucky number for me) and returning on Tuesday, October 15th. Because we will not get in until late Friday night, Christina will be brought to us in the morning.........the earlier the better, b/c I'm quite certain that will be one sleepless night for us. My mom and dad will be joinin us in Guatemala on Saturday evening and will share the rest of our trip with us. This would not have been possible without the frequent flyer miles and hotel points that my dad has earned and graciously given to us. Thank you, Dad and Mom sooooooooo much for giving us the opportunity to travel to see our baby!!!

I'm sure it will be very difficult to leave Christina, but at the same time we'll have held her as a little bitty baby. And of course we'll be anxious to get home to Ian and Brennan!!!!

Garage Sale update

We have received quite a bit from people for our garage sale. YEAH!!!! Jesse and I were talking last night......we haven't really gone through OUR stuff yet. So that is what I'm going to do today while the boys are at preschool. Last night we finished marking the items that we have received and better arranged things to give us plenty of room for more!!! (Thanks, Greg, for helping us with that!) Thanks again to everyone that has donated items for our sale. =)

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Labor Day weekend!

We spent part of this weekend pricing items for the garage sale. I think Jesse wanted to die when he walked into the garage on Sunday afternoon and looked at the mess is his garage. But it went quickly and we are ready to receive more items this week. We should do pretty well. We alse have a handmade quilt from Guatemala that we are going to set up a raffle. I'm going to try to post pictures of the quilt later this week.

Jesse's mom has also been in the hospital since last Tuesday. We are hoping that she will be able to be released today. She really needs to get her strength back. She had flu like symptoms for over a week and then had rectal bleeding. After testing it was discovered that she has collitis (sp?). But in the meantime she has lost a lot of weight from being so sick and is still trying to regain an appetite. We went to see her in Washington, MO on Saturday and Monday. Saturday we had hoped that she would be released from the hospital. As we were on our way to go pick her up her heart rate jumped to 190. "Wow, that's high!!" Ok, so that's what I said, b/c Jesse was freaked out by it and well it sounded like the thing to say. So I sat quietly for a few moments and then asked, "What is normal?". So if you are like me and did not know........normal is something like 60-80 (and who knows, I may be wrong about that as well, but remember I hit my head really hard 10 years ago!). They were able to get her heart rate back to normal, which was a huge relief!!! C'mon, Dorothy!!! Get better soon!!! We love you!

Friday, September 01, 2006

Kind of a downer day!

Sometimes you wonder how everything can happen so much easier for other people? Well, that is where we are at tonight. So we lost our first referral. Then we had to wait many, many days for the birth certificate of our "newest" referral. And then, just when we thought we would take everything one day at a time...........there's a new problem. Carol called yesterday....Marco went to the US Embassy on Tuesday to request DNA authorization. We had crossed something out on our form, so it was rejected. We sent the same additional form to Carol's agency that was correct at the same time we sent our file..........so why wasn't the correct one submitted..........we don't know. But anyway, Marco took the form on Wednesday and the lady asked him if he had his own airplane to fly to the US and get a new form in order to bring it back one day later. Whatever!!!! When Carol called, she had us email the Embassy stating that this form was true and accurate. Carol, did email to let us know that she had yet to hear from Marco........so it probably won't be until Tuesday. Please, please keep us in your thoughts and prayers that things start going ultra smooth with our adoption!!!

Wednesday, August 30, 2006

Adoption Fundraiser

We are currently getting ready for our Garage Sale. Everything that we make at the sale will go directly towards our adoption. My friend, Dan Pieper, with Coldwell Banker/Gundaker is going to sponsor this event by placing an ad in the paper. Thank you, Dan!!!! We have received phone calls from several people that would like to donate items for the sale. We are so appreciative to everyone that has already and those that plan to donate items!!! If you have not contacted us and would like to participate please let me know. The date of the Garage Sale is going to be September 22nd and 23rd. We would like to have everything in our garage by September 17th, so we may begin pricing. Thank you all so much in advance for your support!!!!!!!

Wednesday, August 23, 2006

YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok, so we are at the Lake with family..........and we FINALLY got the call!!!!!!! We officially have the baby's birth certificate............AND the birthmother is well over 18!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sooooooo excited I want to scream!!!!!!!!! I STILL cannot post pics........but will try MUCH harder on Sunday when we get back from the Lake!!! Thank you all so much for your support!!!!

Cheri

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

Update

Ok, so I can't get pics to post!!!UGH!!!!! I'm not doing anything different, but the blogger will not let me upload pictures. I'm going to look into it further.......maybe I have too many on here...........who knows!!! =)

Edited to say:
I just deleted some pics and THEN went into the HELP section (yep, how stupid am I???.....don't answer that!!)..........apparently there are some issues. Hopefully they will be resolved soon and I can post the new pictures!! Anyway, we sent our Power of Attorney to Carol tonight. That has to be authenticated and translated and then we just wait for our DNA to be authorized and then we have to go through family court. If I can ever figure out how to add a link I'll post the exact adoption process to give you a better idea!!! Anyway, I hope I can post the pictures soon, b/c we think she is just ADORABLE!!! And if you didn't receive our email let me know and I'll make sure you get the pics!!!

Cheri

Monday, August 14, 2006

Introducing Christina Rebecca

We received the call on Saturday night. Although we are still greiving the loss of Christina Louise, we are still excited to introduce Christina Rebecca. We have decided to keep the same first name and just change the middle name. The boys already call their little sister Christina and we did not want to confuse them. Also, that is the name we really wanted. I am going to keep the blog the same. I will not remove Christina Louise's pictures as she will always remain in our hearts.

So with much excitement we are happy to introduce Christina Rebecca. She was born on August 8th.......weighs 6lbs 13 oz and is 17.7 inches long. We will have more information hopefully on Wednesday!!!

I can't get the pictures to post, I'll try again later!!

Friday, August 11, 2006

I am SOOOO sad to say..........

We have officially lost our referral of Christina Louise. The birthmother is only 16 1/2 years old, so we cannot proceed with this referral. I pray that this sweet baby will be ok. As you can imagine we are pretty devastated. I will post more later.

Maybe today is the day.......

.........that we'll know the birthmother's birthdate. Marco, our attorney in Guatemala, "should" know her birthdate today. We will rest easier knowing that information. At least at that point we'll know when we'll be able to get things rolling. I am still hoping to travel in October to visit our little girl. My mom, Jesse and I are "for sure" going........I'm hoping that my dad will be able to go as well. My Aunt Theresa is thinking about going too, which would be awesome!!! It would work out perfect if we could go while Jesse is on vacation in October. Otherwise he will lose a few days pay. With the expense of the adoption we really can't afford to lose any money at this point. The only problem is that we have a wedding the Saturday before his full week of vacation. Unfortunately, if we would have the opportunity to visit our baby we would probably have to miss the wedding. Oh well, no sense in worrying about that yet.

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

Christina's most recent pictures!!!!



These were taken while Carol was visiting in Guatemala. We were so excited to see her with her eyes open!!! We may be a little partial, but we think she is just BEAUTIFUL!!!! I can't wait to play with her hair. I'm going to have to start practicing on my cousin Trisha's little girls........TRUST me...........I need a lot of practice!!!!

Where our case is at currently.

Well, Christina's birthmother was not 18 when she was born. To avoid additional delays once we reach PGN (the final Guatemalan "court" to review the case) we have decided to wait until the birthmother's birthday. We were told at referral that would be at the end of August. At this point we are not certain when her birthday is. I spoke with Carol, agency owner, today and she called our attorney in Guatemala. He is going to drive to the village where the birthmother was born to verify when the birthmother's actual birthdate is. Once we find that out and she turns 18 then we can proceed with the case. So, yes, right now we are in limbo!! I know it sounds strange, but you have to keep in mind that because Guatemala is so filled with poverty, most do not celebrate birthday's. In turn, the birthmother does not know the exact date.

We do plan to travel to Guatemala for a visit as soon as the DNA testing has been completed between the birthmother and Christina. I keep hoping we can go sometime in October!!!!!!

One more of Ian and Brennan!

Just couldn't resist this one! Ian helped his brother put on his hats!!! Our silly boys!!!

Summer pics of Ian and Brennan!!





Here are some pictures of Ian and Brennan this summer! Some are at the Lake, fishing at my Dad's pond, playing baseball in our backyard, at the park, and Ian's birthday!

Christina's first pictures!!!



Christina was born on July 11, 2006. We received her referral on July 19th at appx. 6:15 pm. Her first medical report showed that she weighed 6lbs 8 oz and was 18.2 inches long (she certainly looked much longer in the pictures though). Ian and Brennan were so excited when we showed them the pictures of "their lil' sister". We made sure to open them all together. We have since received add'l photo's from our agency owner, Carol, who visited Guatemala appx. July 21 - 24. We were so excited to receive video when Carol returned from Guatemala. Christina was not very fond of the flash of the camera, but just as cute as could be!!! Carol also mailed Ian and Brennan each a blanket, a hand painted "puppy" mask, and a picture.......on the back of the picture it was personalized for each boy from Christina. It was soooooo sweet!!! They sleep with their blankets everynight!

Bare with me........I'm normally pretty computer savvy, but still not sure what I'm doing here. I'll attempt to post some pictures!!